Frequently Asked Questions
Why do we need a sex talk? How difficult can it be? We'll just figure it out.
We hear you. We thought the same. However, our experience as pastors tells us that many people are having terrible sex and it often started on their honeymoon. Don't let that be you! This course comes after years of walking people through disastrous honeymoon stories (including our own!) and is designed to set you up for success.
Who is this course designed for?
This course is for couples who are about to get married. We suggest couples watch this together no sooner than one week before their wedding day and will have 30 days to watch the videos from purchase.
Where did this course come from?
We’ve been pastors for nearly fifteen years. In that time we’ve led marriage preparation classes, performed many wedding ceremonies and done our fare share of marriage counseling. We’ve learned that one of the most helpful things a couple can have is a sex talk before they get married to set them up for success.
Ask any married couple and they’ll tell you that honeymoon sex is the worst sex you’ll have - we want to change that. We want to set you up for a great honeymoon and a great foundation that will lead to a healthy sex life as you grow together in marriage.
Is this a live class?
No. This is a pre-recorded series of lessons that you can watch at any time you wish. Once you purchase the course, you will have 30 days to watch the lessons. We recommend that you and your fiancé watch the classes together. Watch the first couple of sessions free to get a feel for the course.
What does the course cover?
We cover a lot. Where sex fits into marriage, the difference between men and women when it comes to relationships and sex. We provide a practical guide to the penis and vulva (and the vagina - and why they are different!). We’ll also give you a practical step by step plan for the wedding night and answer the most frequent questions we’ve been asked by couples who’ve taken this course. Finally we give you some homework to get rid of anything that could hinder great sex. Have a look at the course topics listed above to get an idea of the material that's discussed. It's pretty thorough.
We're already married. Would this course be helpful for us?
If you've been married for less than a year, you'll find this course helpful.
If you've been married longer than a year, we are in the process of producing our "Better Sex, Better Marriage" video course. This will be a very thorough class all about communication, romance, sex, intimacy and problem solving that will be more helpful (and is about 6 times longer!) We recommend you wait for that.
If you purchase this class, however, there will be a discounted price for the new class once it is released so you won’t miss out.
We’ve had sex before, do we really need this course?
Absolutely. AJ was married before she met Alyn and had the same question. We know it sounds crazy, but this sex talk isn’t solely about the mechanics of the deed, it’s also about the dynamics at work (both emotionally and spiritually) that make sex so powerful (or so damaging) in marriage.
If you’ve been sexually active before, you’ll definitely want to take care of some stuff that we talk about in our “cleaning up your past” section. We offer ministry and prayer to help set you up for success.
Is there a free trial?
You can watch the first two sessions for free (to give you an idea of who we are and what we're like) and while there's no free trial, we do offer a 30 day money back guarantee.
What if we don't find this helpful?
You have a 30 day money back guarantee. If you don't find the information helpful let us know and your money will be refunded, no questions asked.
Who are Alyn & AJ?
We are pastors in Franklin, TN. We help lead Grace Center, a nondenominational church, where we’ve been on staff since 2009. We have three children, host a podcast and teach regularly at the School of Supernatural Life.
Do I have to be a Christian to watch the teachings?
Not at all. As Christian Pastors, we teach on the topic of sex and marriage from a Christian view point using the Bible as our moral compass but you don’t have to share our views for this talk to be helpful.